Family Tips

Confident children (Part 2)

August 21st, 2007

It goes without saying that control is important to ensure safety of the children. But to help them really learn life and new skill, it’s also vital not to spoon-feed. Parents should give kids an opportunity to try something new, make their own mistakes, and learn from them.
For instance, if your child shows the wish to learn how to make a sandwich, you’d better to demonstrate, set up the ingredients, and let him or her try to do it on his or her own. Almost certainly, the child will make a bit of a mess. But don’t shame the kid. Actually, avoid any criticism that could discourage him or her from trying again. On the other hand, if you help untimely to finish the sandwich, your child will think, that he or she can’t make sandwiches.
But if you have patience for the mess and the time it takes to learn, the profit will be real. Someday you will here from the child that he or she is hungry for lunch and is going to make his own sandwich. The best reply for this occasion will be the request to make one more for you. This way you will demonstrate your faith in abilities of your kid.
Help your child by encouraging persistence in doing something. Trying again kids learn that  difficulties and obstacles can and should be overcome.


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