Family Tips

Harmful friendship. Do we need unnecessary relations? (Part 1)

August 27th, 2007

Do we frequently ask, what is a friendship? For certain each of us has his own answer and definition of the “friendship”. But whether we know, what is “harmful friendshipâ€?? After the dialogue with the person whom you consider a friend, try to ask yourself: «How do I feel after our meeting? Better or worse?»
This way is a quite good check to understand essence of any relations: professional, love, friendly. Simply ask this question, not wondering about the reasons of this or that answer to it. Your sensations are important only. The answer will, probably, surprise you.
Ask yourself, how many times did you feel like ruined and disappointed after dialogue with the best girlfriend or friend? How many time did it seem to you, what you are unwittingly humiliated? And the most important question - what for do you continue to keep in touch with people who give you nothing, except for harm, frustration and afflictions?
The reasons of such behavior can be different; however all of them are anyhow connected to emotions, sensations and desires listed in this article. Having understood the reasons inducing you to keep unnecessary and heavy relations, you will be able get rid of them, at last.


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