Family Tips

Harmful friendship. Why we maintain unnecessary relations

August 30th, 2007

Regret
You are worried that having suspended relations, you won’t be able to restore them? However consider that without such heavy relations you will find peace of mind. Probably, having looked at the problem from such angle you will regret, that have not ended these relations earlier. Losing or blocking source of negative, you open yourselves for pleasure and positive in your life.

Difficulty at break of friendly relations
It is difficult to put an end to ties of friendship even if they give you nothing, except for tears and grief. What to do(make)? This circle is very difficult for breaking off. You already know, that relations are hard and even harmful to you, and internal you already agree to stop them, only do not know, how to do it. For the beginning you will need all internal force and confidence that you deserve the best mutual relations. Usually “unhealthy” friendship quickly comes to an end, few times having faced refusal. If you do not show the initiative, relations “will wither” themselves.

Call of duty
You are friends from school. How to break off such old friendly relations? Remember, people change in due course, and your old friend is not that first-form boy, whom you knew 20 years ago.

Friends are necessary to support you and bring pleasure. Your task is to support and please them. If mutual relations start to bring only irritation, grief and pain - it is time to get rid of them.
The life is too short to spend it in grief and depression.
If you are surrounded by negatively disposed people whom you call friends, in some time you will become the melancholiac and grumbler. And joyful people opened to all world will make joyful too. Actually it is very easy to understand, whether relations are “unhealthy” - simply look what people surround you.


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