Family Tips

To serious secrets people usually relate conjugal infidelity; existence of illegitimate children; sexual problems; previous conviction of one of family members; intricate relationships with the nearest relatives.
It is important to stress that absolutely all of the above-stated facts shouldn’t be necessarily hidden or passed over in silence. Only person’s  subjective perception of the event determines, what it will be for him in future — the ordinary (though not very pleasant) fact of family biography, a simple secret or a fatal secret.
The carriers of the hidden information suffer from insincerity and lack of freedom in relationships with the nearest people. The promise of newly-weds to tell each other truth deserves every respect, but sounds fuzzy. In any case it is important to remove omission before marriage and to tell as much as possible about yourself.
The secret may be not so frightful, simply unpleasant, and may be it is better to tell about it, rather than continue to keep silence? In fact, first or last all secrets become obvious, and often in very undesirable moment. Often reaction of those, whom a «fatal secret» was told, becomes the powerful instrument of healing: «Ouch, it was yet worse with me».