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The key to happy relations is acceptance that hard times are inevitable in a marriage, consider psychologists.

Psychotherapists from Californian University consider that the programmed perception that difficulties are inevitable makes marriage steadier to them. In their opinion, modern love stories and fairy tales form in public consciousness myth that ideal relations are not only theoretically possible, but real.

Authors of the research Doctor Diana Gerhard and Doctor Eric MakCollum consider to be a myth opinion of many people that they are able to create ideal relations. And professional advisers cannot help with this situation. The confidence that something ideal exists, can sooner or later force the person to feel defeated. Thus he begins to be focused on negative and will be even more disappointed.

There is the only way out - to understand that healthy relations, as well as a life in general, cannot stay in constant well-being and temporal difficulties and disappointments, unfortunately, are inevitable.