Family Tips

Your attire should be appropriate for the occasion. The place indicated in the card will give you an idea how formal the occasion will be. Some may arrange a wedding on a beach and plan a poolside party, so jeans and a shirt might be acceptable. Lighter suits are good for morning and early afternoon ceremonies, and darker colors for later afternoon and evening one.
Keep in mind religious customs that impose the dress code. In any case, it’s better to be overdressed than underdressed.

Arrive on time. To fulfill this claim you should know how to find the place and have additional time for traffic surprises and parking. Don’t be late, but if you are, sit at the back quietly so that you don’t hinder the ceremony.
Don’t go around waiting for the bride’s limo to arrive. You should take your seat 10 to 15 minutes before the ceremony is scheduled to begin.

Knowledge of customs is very important, as each religion and culture has different marriage rituals. You’d better to inquire about the one you’re attending beforehand. At a religious ceremony, follow the directions of the officiant and do the same, as the other guests: stand, sit and kneel.
A marriage ceremony is a grand solemn occasion. So be respectful and try not to cough or talk during the marriage vows.

Introduce yourself to the guests. Say hello to the families of the wedded couple and especially to older relatives: they remember you as “the young well-bred man”. Try to make a good impression and carry a few business cards if someone asks for one.
You shouldn’t make a toast provided you are not specifically asked to in advance. You should avoid jokes. And be sure to say several nice things about the both of the couple.