Family Tips

Psychologists observe such pattern: the adults who have made successful career, were rather talkative children. Quiet and reticent child cannot achieve anything at home, at school, in general in the world filled with sounds of speech. If you are an interested parent, you should encourage the child to express his or her feelings and ideas. Communicate with the child at a level of his (her) growth, that is literally, bend forward to him or raise him, so that your eyes could meet easily during the conversation.
At last, be able to listen to the child and to show him sympathy even when you do not have ready answers or decisions.
When we are open and sincere in expressing of our feelings, children become sincere in their. Children began to understand: adults trust them, and they also can trust. Trust dispels apprehensions and fears of the child, that he may be rejected derided or betrayed.
Bring up in the child confidence and independence. Adults too willingly cultivate feeling of dependence at children to feel that they are required. In result “compromisers” grow from the children: «Yes, mum; yes, daddy; I will do as you want ». They become silent, passive and dependent.