Family Tips

Thinking over your kids’ anxieties and fears

May 30th, 2007

Try to give honest answers to the following questions:
Are your kid’s fear and the behavior typical for his or her age? If the answer is yes, they more likely will resolve before they become a serious cause for concern. You shouldn’t discount or ignore this anxiety, but it should be considered as a factor in your kid’s normal development.
Many children have appropriate to their age fears, for example, as being afraid of the dark. Most kids overcome or outgrow it.
What are the symptoms of the fear, and how do they influence your kid’s personal, social, and school activity? If symptoms can be determined and considered in the light of your kid’s everyday routine activities, correction can be made to lessen some of the stress factors.
Does the fear seem to be unreasonable in the view to the reality of the situation; and could it be a sign of a more serious problem? If your kid’s anxieties seem out of proportion to its cause, this may give you notice to seek outside help, for example, psychiatrist, or psychologist.
Patterns may also help parents. If a separate incident is resolved, parents shouldn’t make it more significant than it is.
Whatever the case, you can contact your kid’s doctor or a mental health professional who has experience in working with children and adolescents.


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